tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78976090549934807362024-03-08T02:03:34.693-05:00Doing It "The Little Way": Proverbs 31 EditionIn her book, "Story of a Soul", Saint Therese de Lisieux embraces a fresh leadership approach. Known as “The Little Way”, she encourages us to follow the lead and needs of our loved ones using the basic tenets of Proverbs 31. A beautiful example of a woman of strength and virtue, she asks each of us to "do many small deeds with great love." I created this blog to share this philosophy of unconditional love to inspire others in the same way others have inspired me.Doing it the Little Wayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03741665700292588525noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7897609054993480736.post-7518737915966937622010-07-31T18:14:00.000-04:002013-03-21T07:36:40.561-04:00A light introduction...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Saint Therese de Lisieux is a beautiful example of a virtuous woman as described in Proverbs 31. Embracing “The Little Way”, she encourages us
to follow the lead and needs of our loved ones by "doing many small deeds with great love."By creating this blog, I hope to share her philosophy of unconditional love , inspiring
others in the same way others have inspired me.</span></span><br />
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<li><a href="http://doingitthelittleway.blogspot.com/p/about-st-therese.html"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">A<span style="font-size: small;">bout <span style="font-size: small;">Saint </span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Therese de Lisieux </span></span></a></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://doingitthelittleway.blogspot.com/p/proverbs-31.html">About Proverbs 31</a> </span></span></span></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://doingitthelittleway.blogspot.com/p/blog-page.html">Table of Contents</a> (<span style="font-size: small;">by verse)</span></span> </span></span></span></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://doingitthelittleway.blogspot.com/">Contents </a>(<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;">by </span>post date<span style="font-size: small;">)</span></span></span> </span></span></span></span></span> </li>
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~ Theresa</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7897609054993480736.post-78155775912780803272010-07-30T00:05:00.004-04:002013-05-04T15:08:03.109-04:00Reaping Rewards<br />
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<b><i>Proverbs 31:31</i><br />
<i>Give her the reward she has earned,<br />
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.</i></b></div>
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What better way is there to end this series of posts and the book of Proverbs than with a reward? The book of Proverbs is truly about wisdom and the rewards that follow when you choose to take this narrow path. In the first chapter, we are first introduced to a Woman of Wisdom. With the exception of God, she is the most important (and compelling) character in this book. In addition to being wise, she is known for her purity, strength, honesty, boldness, generosity, and compassion. A woman after my own heart, she walks among the people in the public square, reaching out to whoever will listen and offering lessons in living a long, prosperous life – all the while holding onto her good reputation. It’s not until the last chapter of Proverbs, Chapter 31, that our heroine, the Woman of Wisdom is beautifully expressed in the form of a Hebrew acrostic. It is in this beautiful biblical poem that wisdom is personified as a woman to illustrate wisdom at work. In reaching her full potential, the Woman of Wisdom is praised, with her value far greater than rubies.<br />
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What is truly remarkable about this book is that not only was it written thousands of years ago, but realizing the role culture plays in it. Think about it. In today's world, no one would have trouble visualizing a Woman of Wisdom. In fact, why shouldn't Wisdom be a woman? It doesn’t matter whether Wisdom is a man or a woman. What's important is what he or she is saying. Right? But in the culture this book was written, this image was considered shocking to say the least. Back then many would ask…”Where is this woman's father or husband?” Or, “Where is the man who is responsible for her, to whom she has to answer? Why is she out in the streets trying to teach men, when she should be at home, minding her own business? And why should any man be at all interested in anything this woman has to say?”<br />
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While drawn in accordance with the customs of Eastern nations, the moral teachings of Proverbs 31 remain timeless. One of the greatest lessons we can learn about Wisdom is that she doesn’t always come to you in the way you expect. Within this lies a very fundamental truth. Wisdom will not always come from someone you like or respect, much less want to listen to. If you truly value Wisdom though, you will ignore her exterior, take a closer look, and most of all… listen to all that she is willing to share.<br />
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Will you recognize Wisdom when she presents herself to you? What if she comes to you as a small child? A homeless man? An acquaintance, a co-worker you can't stand, your boss, a handyman, a former love who betrayed you, or your spouse? Will you recognize Wisdom during a heated argument, at the height of passion, or in the middle of being bored out of your skull? If we really want Wisdom to come to us, we need to get to a place where we recognize God's voice no matter who He's speaking through.<br />
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So where does the Woman of Wisdom reside? Take a real close look. Her words and actions define her. Living among us, she walks down your street, and may even be found at the store or living with you at home. For the Woman of Wisdom is everywhere and right where you least expect to find her.<br />
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<i>Thank you for the opportunity to share these personal posts in such a public forum. In studying Proverbs 31 this past year, the rewards have been many, with the sheer abundance being truly humbling. In learning about the Woman of Wisdom along with her strength, beauty, dignity, and wisdom, I’ve come to rely on my own inner strengths; have come to see an inner beauty within my own self that leaves me in awe; come to feel a confidence and grace that only dignity knows; and have come to know the difference between knowledge and wisdom. What’s more, in learning how to back up my words with actions, I’ve become the woman I am meant to be…a woman of strength, beauty, dignity, and wisdom. The greatest reward this past year was presented to me during my study of the Woman of Wisdom. It was then this Proverbs 31 woman met her man of strength, beauty, dignity, and wisdom in a Proverbs 31 man named Justin. No words can ever adequately express my love or my appreciation for encouraging me to learn about the Woman of Wisdom for in her I discovered myself.</i><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span mce_style="font-size: small;">Remember ... touch a life today "The Little Way" by following the lead and need of others. Also, if you ever thought to yourself, "I wish my community, knew...", then be sure to visit White Light Communications at <a href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./" mce_href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./">http://www.tothewhitelight.com.</a></span></span><br />
~ Theresa<br />
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~ Theresa</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7897609054993480736.post-7566538947697355752010-07-20T22:05:00.001-04:002013-05-04T15:07:52.368-04:00True Beauty Lives Within<div mce_style="text-align: left;" style="text-align: left;">
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<b><i>Proverbs 31:30</i></b><b><i><br />
Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain;</i><i><br />
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.</i></b></div>
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In the first verse, "Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain", the word "favor" refers to a woman's outward appearance and form while "beauty’s" vanity vanishes all too quickly – much like a vapor. External beauty is often deceitful as what you see is not always what you really get. On the surface, it may appear as though you are viewing a very beautiful, a very special person, but then all of a sudden the beauty fades as they open their mouth startling everyone with their expletives and negative comments.<br />
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Indeed, outer charm covers up a multitude of sins. Case in point… have you ever opened up a nut with a fine looking shell, only to discover that when you crack it open, the meat inside it is rotten and undesirable? The same holds true for beautiful actors, pop stars, and models. Upon a closer look you realize that they are known more for their broken marriages, substance abuse, and personal problems than they are for their beauty or talent. Beneath the external shell, there lives a very troubled individual who desperately needs God's transforming grace. Without God’s grace, external beauty and talent are fleeting with life eventually becoming meaningless and empty.<br />
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In spite of this, there’s a great emphasis on external beauty today. In fact, beautiful people are often more popular, recognized more frequently, and get better jobs. Makeup is used in abundance. All kinds of supplements and health products are offered with the promise of making people look younger and more attractive, only slowing down, but not preventing nature's natural deterioration. Surgical procedures are performed with alarming regularity to change, enhance, reduce, or “improve” a person's outward appearance. Companies offering diet programs and exercise programs report record earnings from people who want to look beautiful and feel good. One does not even have to leave the comfort of home to get hooked. How many times have you seen a TV show devoted to “extreme makeovers”? You know the ones that transform a plain or unattractive person into an outwardly attractive person with makeup, new clothes, hair styling, weight loss, exercise, surgery, and more. There’s no end to the creative ways in which mankind tries to beautify, preserve, and idolize the outer body. All without ever changing what is going on in the inside!<br />
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True beauty in the sight of God is not the product of cosmetics, but rather the shining forth of the indwelling Christ. When asked about the secret of her beautiful complexion, a woman once said, "I use truth for my lips; for my voice, prayer; for my eyes, pity; for my hands, charity; for my figure, uprightness; and for my heart, LOVE." The best part? You can receive a lifetime supply of these heavenly cosmetics for free when you invite God to live within your heart, mind, and spirit!<br />
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The second verse, "But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised", expresses that inner beauty can never be achieved without having a meaningful and intimate relationship with the Lord. When you do, His glory shines brilliantly outwardly in the form of words and deed for all to experience. Sad to say, many do not seem to realize this, sacrificing goodness and godliness in the pursuit of the latest trend or whatever makes them appear more beautiful. Yet the truth behind beauty resides in those who choose to pursue godliness rather than fashion for “beauty in the heart puts beauty on the face”.<br />
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It is our words and our deeds that draw inner beauty outward. They are expressed in many ways such as helping an elderly neighbor prepare meals or volunteering your time to your community. It is the LOVE that you demonstrate to others that radiates your inner beauty. HOPE is also an expression of inner beauty with the belief of a positive outcome regardless of the event and/or circumstance of one's life and the lives of others. COMPASSION towards another who is in pain or suffering is also a form of inner beauty, feeling it tug at your heart. While you try to ignore it, it never goes away. Deep down it’s always there.<br />
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But what about outer beauty? Can’t someone view a beautiful waterfall, a majestic mountain or the brilliant stars in heaven without inner beauty? I think not. It is only when you take a long, lingering look that you truly pay attention and appreciate its inherent beauty. A beauty that resides below the surface and beyond first impressions. While outer beauty is fleeting, inner beauty is strong and resilient. It leaves an indelible, lasting impression on one’s heart, mind, and spirit, transforming your life for the better. Knowing this… I am going to seek out inner beauty in everything and everyone placed in my life. How about you?<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span mce_style="font-size: small;">Remember ... touch a life today "The Little Way" by following the lead and need of others. Also, if you ever thought to yourself, "I wish my community, knew...", then be sure to visit White Light Communications at <a href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./" mce_href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./">http://www.tothewhitelight.com.</a></span></span><br />
~ Theresa<br />
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~ Theresa</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7897609054993480736.post-11607350985054327482010-07-15T22:41:00.000-04:002013-05-04T15:07:41.844-04:00They are called blessed...<br />
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<b><i>Proverbs 31:28-29</i><br />
<i>Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:<br />
“Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.”</i></b></div>
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These two verses express beautifully just how blessed both men and women are when they embrace the roles they are meant to hold; that of cherished spouse and loving parents. While these roles are often challenging, they are also the most rewarding. Much hard work goes into being a Proverbs 31 individual. It not only requires a verbal commitment to be and do good, but to serve as a daily role model to others in deed. As a reward for this commitment, their loved ones praise them in word and deed in return. Their children are grateful for their early training as it sets the tone for a lifetime; owing all that they achieve to their upbringing and to the parents who loved, guided, protected, and shaped them. Their spouse praises them too saying, "many have done excellently, but you surpass them all."<br />
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On a more personal note, I cannot tell you how truly blessed I feel when family and loved ones appreciate me as a friend, partner, parent, and more. This has not always been the case though. During my first marriage, my former husband would come home after work very tired. It was then that he would often be critical of the work I did professionally, how I maintained our home, and how I cared for our children. I cannot tell you how crushed I was because I was sincerely doing my very best to balance a full-time career with marriage and family life. While I received much praise from friends and neighbors, I was seeking, but rarely received praise from the man who meant everything to me … my husband and father of our children. While I did not realize it back then, I was trying so hard to embrace a Proverbs 31 way of life without a foundation; without a partner who valued and appreciated it. We eventually divorced, with my spending the last 15 years as a single parent of now two grown kids.<br />
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Then eighteen months ago, I met a wonderful man who changed my life forever. During the past year, he has been there for me as I experienced some of the most painful times of my life. He helped me through a former friend’s betrayal, as my business fell on hard times, as I became very sick with the flu, as my resources dried up, and as I was on the verge of losing my home. Every step of the way, he not only showed me through words, but also in deeds what unconditional love truly looks and feels like. It was then he re-introduced me to Proverbs 31. I say, “re-introduce” because like many of you out there, I had preconceived notions about Proverbs 31 along with its “following the lead and serving the needs of others” lifestyle. In fact, we shared numerous discussions about how a woman would not want to serve a man who did not love and cherish her; and that, if you read in between the lines every Proverbs 31 woman had a Proverbs 31 man who loved, cherished, encouraged, and protected her. Then one day he challenged me to study Proverbs 31 verse by verse to learn their true meaning. During the last few months, you - my readers - have been beneficiaries as this blog has been about sharing what I have learned. What is the biggest thing I learned? To my surprise... my life works much better when I follow the lead and serve the needs of others and when Proverbs 31 and a Proverbs 31 man are a part of it!<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span mce_style="font-size: small;">Remember ... touch a life today "The Little Way" by following the lead and need of others. Also, if you ever thought to yourself, "I wish my community, knew...", then be sure to visit White Light Communications at <a href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./" mce_href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./">http://www.tothewhitelight.com.</a></span></span><br />
~ Theresa<br />
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~ Theresa</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7897609054993480736.post-90544736588458372782010-07-08T01:11:00.000-04:002013-05-04T15:07:31.378-04:00Protecting Home Life and Loved Ones<br />
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<i><b>Proverbs 31:27<br />
She watches over the affairs of her household and<br />
does not eat the bread of idleness.</b></i></div>
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<i><b>She watches over the affairs of her household </b></i>... The Proverbs 31 individual supervises every detail of their home, taking care to watch over the household and to protect loved ones. This includes paying special care of what is going on in a child's life regardless of their age. While not easy by any stretch of the imagination, it is our job as parents to constantly "tune into" what our children do, where they go, who they keep company with, and yes... even monitor what they watch on television, the music they listen to, and the places they go online. While some parents may view such a watchful eye as spying, or worse yet...invasion of privacy.... our children, in fact, rely and thrive on love, guidance, and protection. Without love, children feel abandoned, become angry or bitter, and learn hatred. Without guidance, children lack direction, become confused, and get into trouble. Without protection, children wind up ill, injured, or worse. One does not have to go very far to find distractions; not all of them positive. Our world is full of them, all vying for our child's attention. There are countless examples out of Hollywood of what happens when a child is without love, guidance, or protection. Without love, Britney Spears' life spiraled out of control with attempted suicides and a nervous breakdown. Without guidance, Miley Cyrus posed semi-nude by 15, lap danced for middle-aged men by 16, and constantly exploits herself in scantily clad attire in front of the media's ever-gazing eye. And without protection, Lindsay Lohan's life at 24 is on out of control Once a poster child for Disney wholesomeness, she's had multiple stays in rehab for drug and alcohol addiction, has been cited for a number of car accidents, and was sentenced just today to 90 days in jail! Our children do not know enough about the ways of the world to have the forethought or insight to know whether they are placing themselves in harm's way. What's more, they rely on us to love, guide, and protect them the best we know how. As Jackie Kennedy once said, "If you can't be a good parent, nothing else matters." Good parenting requires us to take an active role in our child's life. What's more, it requires us to be "unpopular" at times so that we learn what is REALLY going on with our child. It is only then we can sufficiently guide, discipline, and restrict if need be so that they are channeled into positive and enriching activities.<br />
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<b><i>And does not eat the bread of idleness...</i></b> A Proverbs 31 individual is not one who looks and says, "What happened?"; rather, they are full of energy, well-occupied, and a real go-getter in terms of making things happen. They cram as much as they can into their busy lives whether it is keeping the household running smoothly; helping family members achieve their goals; working in a full-time job; fulfilling a voluntary role; or something else. With a life so full, there is no room for gossip or talk about so-and-so; there's no room to be discontent or envious of so-and-so for what they have; and there is no room for feeling sorry for one self because so-and-so gets all the breaks in life and you never do. The Proverbs 31 individual's life is so full with positive activities that they are genuinely happy for other people's successes. What's more, they know that if they haven't yet "come into their own", they realize it's just a matter of time and use their time wisely.<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span mce_style="font-size: small;">Remember ... touch a life today "The Little Way" by following the lead and need of others. Also, if you ever thought to yourself, "I wish my community, knew...", then be sure to visit White Light Communications at <a href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./" mce_href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./">http://www.tothewhitelight.com.</a></span></span><br />
~ Theresa<br />
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~ Theresa</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7897609054993480736.post-13246781676690571352010-07-03T18:36:00.001-04:002013-05-04T15:07:21.232-04:00From wisdom, kindness flows<br />
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<i><b>Proverbs 31:26<br />
She opens her mouth with wisdom,<br />
And on her tongue is the law of kindness. </b></i></div>
Throughout Proverbs 31, it speaks of an individual who leads an examplary life for others to follow. They not only inspire and offer guidance to others with their words, but they also back up those words with actions that heal and clearly demonstrate the unconditional love they have for others.<br />
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<b>She openeth her mouth with wisdom</b><br />
When the Proverbs 31 individual speaks, they are mindful of what they say and the impact their words may have on others. Native Americans are very wise. They respect rather than fear silence. In fact, by remaining silent, they are aware of the abundant knowledge that can be gained from mindful listening. When they do speak. they choose their words carefully, taking special care to only speak positively and of what really matters to others in the present moment. Through mindful listening and well-chosen words, they can offer guidance that blends past experiences with the company they choose to keep. The same holds true with the Proverbs 31 individual. By spending time in silence with our Lord on a regular basis and reading His Word, the Proverbs 31 individual seeks, mindfully listens to, and has a chance to reflect on His wisdom. Once this wisdom instills into their heart, they can live life accordingly to His plan and ultimately become the person they are meant to be. What's more, from the wisdom gained, they have a wonderful opportunity to share faithful advise to those entrusted in their care ... spouse, children, relatives, co-workers, friends, and acquaintances... based on real world experiences.<br />
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<b>and in her tongue is the law of kindness</b><br />
When the Proverbs 31 individual speaks, they are not only mindful of what they say, but also of the manner in which they speak. As my mother used to say, "it is not only what you say, but also how you say it." The Proverbs 31 individual speaks kindly and tenderly towards everyone. Whether they are speaking with loved ones, or adversaries, they do so with love. Further, they back up their words with actions that clearly demonstrate to others patience, respect, mercy, and most of all... unconditional love.<br />
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A beautiful example of this is the wisdom that my partner demonstrated to me. Early on in our courtship, Justin spoke of the love he still had for his former wife. He explained to me how their life together was not all bad; that they in fact had two wonderful boys and shared many beautiful memories during their 20 years together. Only the final moments of their marriage were bad. I was totally amazed. Not only with the compassion with which he shared it, but that he demonstrated this regularly, writing to her even though she abandoned him and their boys in favor of a new life with someone else in Sweden. He also demonstrates this with the loving friendship he shares to this day with a past girlfriend. When she has a problem, he often lends a listening ear and offers emotional support. I have to tell you that I was very uncomfortable with this "arrangement" for a very long time. I would ask myself, "how is this possible? or "if that is the case, why isn't he still with them?" I eventually realized though the wisdom behind his words and his actions. So many of us... myself included... tend to focus so much on the negative surrounding one single event, that we often loose sight of the many positive events in our life. Then one day, I finally woke up and asked myself... "Isn't this how I would want him to treat me if we were to part ways?" It was then that it all made sense. He opened his mouth with wisdom, and from his tongue the law of kindness flowed.<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span mce_style="font-size: small;">Remember ... touch a life today "The Little Way" by following the lead and need of others. Also, if you ever thought to yourself, "I wish my community, knew...", then be sure to visit White Light Communications at <a href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./" mce_href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./">http://www.tothewhitelight.com.</a></span></span><br />
~ Theresa<br />
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~ Theresa</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7897609054993480736.post-65550642705488057292010-06-23T02:31:00.000-04:002013-05-04T15:07:09.324-04:00Do Your Clothes Define You?<br />
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<i><b>Proverbs 31:25<br />
Strength and honor are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come</b></i></div>
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Living in the 21st century, we are often self-conscious about our image and our appearance. So much so that we allow our clothes to define who we are. If our clothes REALLY do define us, then perhaps we are all overdue for an extreme makeover. It starts by knowing what not to wear. Like the show on the TLC network, perhaps we should all throw out our existing clothing in favor of a finer wardrobe; one that our Creator provides to all believers... the clothing of STRENGTH, HONOR, and BEAUTY!<br />
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STRENGTH. We often think strength is found in a man or woman who always speaks their mind and never asks anyone for help. Or that strength is found in a man or woman who runs their household in fear that if left to their partner's care, everything would fall apart. Better yet, many believe strength is found in a corporate CEO who never had children in favor of their career. Rest assured physical, emotional, and mental strength all come in handy on many occasions. Real strength, however, is spiritual in nature. It can be worn in many different ways as faithfulness in prayer; holding steadfast to one's beliefs against the grain of the secular world; not giving into social pressure or secular standards; or standing up for what is right in the face of opposition. Spiritual strength is also worn by spending quality time "in the moment" with the ones you love. How many times have you heard a friend or co-worker complain that their partner spends so much time at work trying to provide for them that they have little to no time to spend with the family? Even though their loved one works long hours to provide for them, they say they would rather have more alone time with them. God actually feels the same way about you. While the work you may be doing is for Him, He would much rather have you spend more quality time with Him reflecting on the moment so He can clothe you in all the virtues you need to be the person He designed you to be. When we wear clothing our Creator provides; ones that flatter our physical, mental, emotional, AND spiritual well being, everything in our life falls naturally into place. Or, at the very least, we are well dressed to handle our life when it doesn’t.<br />
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DIGNITY. As ambassadors of the Gospel, we wear clothing that advertises how we feel about God and our faith. Scrutinized by others for all that we do, we are asked to dress and behave with dignity and honor at all times. If for some reason our manners, dress, or speech are undignified, then it is God who is insulted. We are not meant to live life entirely for our own selves. rather, we are meant to live our life for Him. More importantly, we are asked to be aware of our behavior and wear openness, honesty, reliability, integrity, and trustworthiness in our relationships with others.<br />
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BEAUTY. The attire befitting our beauty is not the shallow variety driving much of our society today. Nor is it about spending huge amounts of time and money on cosmetic products to enhance the skin and designer clothing to accentuate the figure. In fact, having wrinkle-free skin and wearing fashionable clothes does not guarantee inner beauty of an individual! True beauty begins in the heart, and is a “gentle and quiet spirit”. As St. Peter so aptly phrased it:<br />
<i>“Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel ~ rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.” (1 Peter 3:3-4). </i><br />
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Finally, the wardrobe the Proverb 31 individual wears is not available at your nearby marketplace or shopping mall. Rather, the wardrobe the Proverb 31 individual wears are garments of strength, dignity, and beauty the Lord provides the believing heart who is looking to Him.<br />
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When looking to Him wearing your finest attire, walk beside Him radiating strength. Speak to others in a voice of quiet confidence to communicate dignity. Most of all... rejoice in your future. It is bright, beautiful, eternal, and secure as your industry and planning have provided you with the finest. Then savor your past with a smile!<br />
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~ Theresa<br />
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<b><i>Proverbs 31:24<br />
She makes fine linen garments,<br />
sells them, and<br />
supplies the merchants with sashes</i></b></div>
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As I mentioned in my last post, I had preconceived notions about Proverbs 31; specifically, that the verses were most likely written by male chauvinists whose fondest wishes were to confine women. As I learned more about Proverbs 31 and about myself, I was pleasantly surprised to experience first hand the true wisdom residing in these words. I was even more surprised to discover that these words were misrepresented by many over time - especially by clergy - by unenlightened theology. Rather than holding individuals back, these words actually empower both men and woman to take on greater responsibility within the world; many of which can be tackled from home!<br />
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Take for instance, Proverbs 31:24. In the first line, the Proverbs 31 individual is industrious, "making fine linen garments" from home. Doing their best to serve the LORD, s/he not only creates textiles from the finest wool and flax, but s/he also creates fine garments from them for their family to wear. Then in the second line, the resulting merchandise is so much in demand due to the quality of workmanship that s/he "sells them", leading others to purchase and wear them. The third line and final line has the Proverbs 31 individual "supplying merchants with sashes" from home rather than from outside the home, freeing them to build and maintain a warm, nurturing home for their loved ones! Independent by nature, I have to tell you that this arrangement sounds far more peaceful than the hectic pace many of us are experiencing nowadays. What's more, the income generated from a home-based business can be put towards not only improving the home, but quality of life too.<br />
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Like many of you, I realize the economy is in a shamble with many out of work or underemployed. Now more than ever, the need to work outside the home is a necessity, not a luxury. If like me, this is your reality, then pray and ask our Creator to show you how to use your talents to generate as much income as you are currently making outside the home -- or more -- at home. While not easy by any stretch of the imagination, anything is possible with the help of our Creator. All you have to do is ask. In fact, some of the most successful businesses started from home and from a hobby or activity that an individual was good at and really enjoyed, but never realized was marketable. For example, I know of a man who sells custom-scented candles on the Internet. I also know of a very creative lady who designs and repackages fine chocolates for business events and special occasions. There are countless others who give clarinet lessons; grow organic vegetables; tutor high school students in English or Math; sell homemade cupcakes; make quilts; or perform custom sewing and alterations -- all from home. <br />
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On a more personal level... when my sister married her long-time love a few years back, her flowers were arranged and her cake was made by women who worked from home. As for me... I have a home-based business promoting the community where I live along with areal businesses by developing a full array of marketing materials; everything from flyers, ads, and brochures to newsletters, booklets, and websites. Regardless of your talent or passion in life, IT IS possible to create a marketable product or service from a hobby or talent. Once developed with your signature touch, that product or service can then be performed from home, sold from home, and delivered to others for purchase or to "merchants" for resale ... from home ... just as the Proverbs 31 woman did. The goal is not to leave home to work elsewhere, but rather live life as a Proverbs 31 individual would ... allowing work to come to you at home so as to create a much more peaceful, more balanced lifestyle.<br />
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Most of all... regardless of what you pursue... be sure to touch base with our LORD regularly about your plans. He knows better than we do about what is best for us. Also, be sure to take time to study Proverbs 31. These verses are filled with so many hidden treasures on how to live a richer, more fulfilling life with your loved ones. Finally... when you need to find a way to bring more money home, remember to ask yourself, "Is this challenge requiring me to supply the merchants, or to be a merchant?"<br />
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~ Theresa<br />
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<b><i>Proverbs 31:23<br />
“Her husband is well known at the city gates,<br />
where he sits with the other civic leaders..”</i></b></div>
This verse is particularly interesting. At long last and seemingly out of nowhere, the 13th verse finally references the Proverbs 31 man. Yet only after 12 vivid descriptions and just before 8 more about the Proverbs 31 woman. While such placement would seem odd at first, it makes perfect sense upon closer reflection. For when we believe in and act upon the Proverbs 31 passage in faith, we are actually using our work, our time, along with our talents, resources, and words to raise others up. As we continue to do good for others, we soon discover we gladly do so out of love for our loved ones and for our Creator too. This verse is the essence of submission.<br />
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Oh how I hear all the loud voices as I write this. "What submission?" "In this day and age?" "Not me, not ever."In fact, just the sheer thought of submission has a way of sending a collective shiver up and down the spines of many. For in an age marked by feminism and personal freedom, many women would at least laugh at the word as though I were telling some kind of joke. Then there are those who find themselves on the other end of the spectrum; those who would not dare do anything without first consulting their husband for approval. Paralyzed by fear, they wouldn't dare do anything remotely considered unsubmissive. Admittedly, my partner would tell you I was once amongst the former crowd, laughing at the sheer prospect of submitting to anyone and totally embracing the mantra, "No one is the boss of me." That is until recently.<br />
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I now truly believe that submission falls somewhere in between the two extremes. Submission is not oppressive. What's more, submission is not about losing one's voice or one's personal freedom. Rather, at the heart of submission is an attitude of service to others. A self-less, disciplined act of total surrender, submission is not done out of fear, but rather out of unconditional love towards others. No longer focused on one's own needs and wants, submission is an act of unconditional love, making everything and everyone around better as a result of our presence. It is in this goodness, in serving the lead and needs of others before our own that we have an opportunity to touch and heal the lives of many, inspiring others with our words and creating an atmosphere where others have the freedom to do their very best. It is in glorifying others, in glorifying our Creator, that the same glory returns to us a thousand fold and in the most beautifully unexpected ways. In loving and surrendering totally to the need and lead of others, in focusing on others before our selves, true submission is not at all confining; rather, it is the ultimate in freedom.<br />
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~ Theresa<br />
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<i><b>Proverbs 31:22<br />
</b><b>“She makes herself coverings of tapestries;<br />
her clothing is silk and purple.”</b></i></div>
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The virtuous individual is diligent, enterprising, selfless, and practical; not only in serving the needs of family, but also in nurturing themselves and their appearance. Why? To ignore or neglect family and appearance, to look impoverished, shabby, or threadbare are not marks of spirituality. Rather, a modest level of material prosperity is in fact a sign that God's blessings have been bestowed upon His sons and daughters. Therefore, the appearance of our home, however modest, as well as our own appearance self are reflections of all those we honor and cherish: God, our spouse, and our loved ones. It is for this reason the virtuous individual strives to include both in their daily routine. <br />
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So how do we maintain a lovely home along with our appearance with limited resources? A virtuous individual maintains and prioritizes goals as well as uses their time wisely so as to serve their family while being mindful of their own appearance. A creative individual, they create a warm, inviting home for their loved ones using elegant decorating ideas. They cover walls, furniture, and beds with hand embroidered items, colorful paints, exquisite stencils, well-made fabrics, hand-woven tapestries, and more to ensure every room, including the bedroom, is a sacred, inviting sanctuary worthy of the loved ones they cherish.<br />
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Further, the virtuous individual spends their resources wisely, choosing only the finest fabrics such as cotton, linen, or silk and selecting only the most glorious colors to match their regal and godly character. Dressing well speaks a great deal about one's true character and dignity for the outward garments that are worn is a portrait of the beauty and splendor found within. Most of all... and this is something that is often ignored... the virtuous individual develops, rather than stifles, their sensuality to sustain a healthy self-image, a vibrant marriage, and a loving family life. For the sheer presence of a virtuous man or woman is not only pleasing to the eye and to all the senses, but also enriches the lives of many with their beautifully vibrant soul. It all starts with creating a warm, inviting place and in nurturing ourselves so we can love and care for others.<br />
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~ Theresa<br />
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<i><b>Proverbs 31:21<br />
"When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet."</b></i></div>
This is such a simple yet beautiful verse depicting how the virtuous individual provides for their loved ones - both physically and spiritually - by anticipating their needs ahead of time. By planning ahead with purpose and a firm goal in mind, the virtuous individual is prepared to protect the well-being of their loved ones from cold weather, financial hardships, or any other difficulties that may arise. It is for this reason that they do not fear for their household. <br />
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Further, regardless of season or circumstance, the virtuous individual does not fear, honor, or give reverence to any challenge. All are viewed as insignificant in light of their preparedness. In this particular verse, the virtuous individual plans for the physical warmth and comfort of their loved ones by dressing them in warm clothing of "scarlet." While the color scarlet of itself is not inherently warm, its use in this verse has significant meaning. In biblical times, scarlet clothing was often made of wool, thereby preserving warmth. What's more, the clothing's color provided desired ornamentation as the scarlet color was considered royal or dignified.<br />
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The "Scarlet" color was "derived from a cochineal-like insect known as a Tola. When crushed, the Tola produced a fine deep red, or rich crimson dye, much admired by royalty and Asians alike. Upon closer examination, I learned our Lord often compared himself to this cochineal-like insect or'worm'. For example, in Psalm 22:6, He shared, "Yet, I am a worm and not a man. I am scorned by humanity and despised by people." It is then that "clothed with scarlet" takes on its spiritual meaning. While Moses may have referred to scarlet wool as providing much physical warmth within the Old Testament, the New Testament refers to the "scarlet clothing" of blood Jesus shed on our behalf to forgive and protect us from our sins.<br />
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Thus, regardless of challenge, be it physical or spiritual in nature, the virtuous individual is well-prepared to protect the well-being of their family. That through their faith and prayers, they do not fear for their household. Dressed in the scarlet blood of Jesus, they are confident in their abilities to keep their loved ones safe, warm, AND loved. A colorful - and formidable - choice of clothing for all of us to wear indeed when presenting ourselves to the world, don't you think?<br />
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~ Theresa<br />
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<b><i>Proverbs 31:20</i></b></div>
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<b><i>She extends her hand to the poor, <br />
And she stretches out her hands to the needy.</i></b></div>
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This verse is a wonderful example of parallelism. Often found in Hebrew poetry, parallelism refers to the presentation of two similar ideas; in this case, the second phrase basically saying the same thing as the first, with only minor variations: help the poor and needy. With "poor” and “needy” both meaning "afflicted or humbled, the terms often describe those who are physically and/or materially poor. Yet, the terms may also refer to believers who recognize their spiritual poverty. That is to say, they realize their spiritual growth is dependent on acknowledging their desperate need for that which only the Lord can supply. When He supplies us with whatever we lack, we are rich indeed.<br />
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During the days of His humiliation, our blessed Lord was also referred to as "poor": <i>"For ye know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that, though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, that ye through his poverty might be rich" (2 Cor. 8:9).</i> It is for this reason, God asks us to reach out and help the poor and needy in the same way He has helped us. When we do, we honor Him in the same way He honors us. <br />
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With this in mind, the virtuous individual demonstrates compassion with concrete deeds toward the poor and needy. S/he loves the poor, not in word or in tongue only, but also in deed and in truth. But what really strikes me about this verse are the words, “she stretches out her hands to the needy." These words immediately conjure up an image of a mother reaching out to her children in time of need. it in fact reminds me of when my children were young. When either of them cried after being hurt or disappointed, my hand would automatically reach out to them without thinking. <br />
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Along with an image of a mother "stretching out her hands to the needy”, I also envision a virtuous individual who wants to do more than just give of her time, resources, or money. With a mother's natural instinct, the Proverbs 31 individual wants to show true compassion, nurturing all those who are in need. When they do, they realize help comes in many forms; not just monetarily. In fact, s/he realizes that there are times when the right thing to do is to NOT give any money. For example, in the case of a man who deceptively begs for money for groceries, only to spend it on alcohol. Or, in the case of a woman who routinely goes around church to church looking for free meals and financial gifts. Supporting this kind of behavior does not teach long-term personal responsibility.<br />
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Using wisdom and discernment, the Proverbs 31 often nurtures using creative, and often alternative, means. While s/he realizes giving of resources is a valuable and much-needed thing to do, s/he is also mindful to give of their heart too. For example, if a person is truly hungry, and s/he believes it is proper to help, the Proverbs 31 individual invites him or her into their home. They sit with them; share a meal with them; include them in as part of your family; and most of all… ask them to stay long enough for some words of encouragement, whether from the Bible or another inspirational work. The end result? The Proverbs 31 individual not only fed their tummy, but their heart too.<br />
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<i><b>Hebrews 13:2</b></i></div>
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<i><b>Let us be mindful to be as charitable with our hearts as we are with our resources. And remember… "Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares."</b></i></div>
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In closing, when extending a helping hand to others, ask God for guidance; specifically, wisdom and discernment in how best to meet the needs of those with whom He has placed in your life.<br />
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<i><b>Luke 12:48</b></i></div>
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<i><b>From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked.</b></i></div>
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~ Theresa<br />
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<b><i>Proverbs 31:19</i><br />
<i>She layeth her hands to the spindle,<br />
and her hands hold the distaff</i></b></div>
The Proverbs 31 individual’s hands are rarely, if ever, idle. They use their time and hands wisely, faithfully, and skillfully to provide clothing, bed linens, and other necessities for family and others. In particular, this verse describes an ancient method of spinning fiber into thread. Prior to the advent of a spinning wheel, a spinster used a distaff (a staff) to hold flax, wool, or other fibers while a spindle spun fiber in a circular twisting and turning motion into thread.<br />
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An arduous undertaking, an individual who held a distaff and spindled fiber at the same time possessed great physical, spiritual, and mental strength. Further, they possessed much patience and endurance as it took much time to complete. An individual demonstrating these characteristics was considered a great blessing to all those in their life.<br />
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The New Testament describes such a woman. Her name was Tabitha - Aramaic for gazelle. Much like a gazelle, Tabitha was beautiful, nimble, and well known for her skilled artistry. Many smiled and felt relief in her presence; it was as though a heavy burden lifted. She was well loved, respected, and surrounded by those who clearly saw and felt the work and character of Christ within her.<br />
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In modern times, qualities such as strength, patience, and endurance as well as skills such as sewing, knitting, and quilting have become lost in favor of instant gratification and disposable wares. Yet there is so much value in creating something with your own hands; not just sentimental value, but financial value too as it costs far less to make your own clothing and quilts, for example, than to purchase them. What’s more, children can learn so much from watching their mother and father work, allowing many qualities and skills to pass onto future generations.<br />
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Whether at home or away, truly following the lead and needs of others does not occur overnight; nor does such service diminish over time. Rather, it takes time, commitment, and effort to develop the patience, strength, and endurance to serve God and others. When performed with great love, the effort of one’s service grows more beautiful as time passes. An effort that requires investment in our self and in the relationships we have with others and with God.<br />
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It starts by asking God to bless our hands, making them skillful and successful for Him. With His blessings, we are then capable of doing amazing things with our hands. Next, believing in His Word gives us the strength, patience, and endurance to commit to following the lead and needs of others. “Servant leadership” - and its many forms - is a beautiful tapestry created with threads of strength, patience, and endurance woven with God’s Word, unconditional love, and acceptance. Laying His hands wisely and faithfully onto a spindle while skillfully holding a distaff, it is with God’s refinement that we become a most treasured masterpiece. What's more, in being created in His image, we have been given hands in which to create the most beautiful masterpieces of our own. The blessedness of our hands and of our work comes from creating something with much love, just as our Heavenly Father did when He used His Hands in creating us.<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span mce_style="font-size: small;">Remember ... touch a life today "The Little Way" by following the lead and need of others. Also, if you ever thought to yourself, "I wish my community, knew...", then be sure to visit White Light Communications at <a href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./" mce_href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./">http://www.tothewhitelight.com.</a></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>Proverbs 31:18<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i><b>She sees that her trading is profitable</b></i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">The Proverbs 31 individual is confident and assured, viewing their work as being with and for God. With their whole life - personality, time, talent, influence, material substance, everything - dedicated to God, their confidence and self-assurance do not come from what they are capable of doing, but rather from recognizing their work as inherently good. For this reason, they carefully monitor all their work, ensuring their motivation is pure rather than out of selfishness. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Financially, the Proverbs 31 individual strives to live their life on a balanced budget. Being mindful not to spend beyond their means, they purchase quality items for their business and for their family without causing undue hardship. While they may experience setbacks along the way, they are not discouraged. During the lean times they make do with what they have or go without. With a little creativity, they’ve learned to create things with little or no value into something useful and of great value. Much like sea merchants who take many risks in pursuit of godly pearls, the Proverbs 31 individual is determined to forge ahead even in turbulent times as they know the ultimate reward is of great value and well worth the trouble.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Realizing this life choice requires perseverance and a great deal of hard work, the Proverbs 31 individual takes time to reflect on and feels a sense of pride in their many accomplishments. This sense of pride is not out of arrogance; rather, deep down they know they are good and it is this pride that encourages them to continue working hard. They are also very mindful to keep their egos in check as it is so easy to go astray. They do so by reminding themselves often that it is only through God's good grace that they've been able to accomplish so much with their life and are most appreciative of the gift He has provided.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">As a result of this appreciation and from having performed good works for and through the Lord, the Proverbs 31 individual is at a great advantage when compared with their peers. They grow abundantly richer as their good work is garnered with much Wisdom - far more precious than fine gold or silver. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>Her lamp does not go out at night</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">The lamp of the Proverbs 31 individual is always burning. Working diligently, they rise early in the morning and stay up until very late at night, never weary of doing good work. While at times, their spiritual prosperity may dampen, they are able to withstand even the darkest of times without ever extinguishing as they are rooted and grounded in God’s Word and Unconditional Love. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">The light illuminating the Proverbs 31 individual’s lamp is Jesus as He is the light of the world. The oil fueling that lamp is the power of the Holy Spirit. Through the power of the Holy Spirit the Proverbs 31 individual becomes the instrument through which Jesus’ light shines ever so brightly for all to see.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Remember ... touch a life today "The Little Way" by following the lead and need of others. Also, if you ever thought to yourself, "I wish my community, knew...", then be sure to visit White Light Communications at <a href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./">http://www.tothewhitelight.com.</a><br />
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<b><i>Proverbs 31: 17 </i></b><br />
<b><i>She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong.</i></b><br />
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While one of the shorter verses, this one is incredibly beautiful. So much so, I share its richness with you in the form of a Trinity – in three parts.</div>
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<li><b><i>She dresses herself</i>. </b>In a very literal sense, a Proverbs 31 individual is self-directing and does not need or expect anyone to lay out their clothes; dictate their mode of dress; provide a weather forecast ahead of time; or explain what is or is not appropriate for each day's activities. In fact, the Proverbs 31 individual is well-prepared for anything, both literally and figuratively, as they are dressed in a strength not intended for the weak of will or the weak in intellect and are ready to walk with someone greater than their own self. Further, counter to conventional wisdom, they are dressed in an attire often associated with a mustang – strong, mystical, wildly passionate; the essence of freedom that can’t stand still. For it is this very strength of will and fierce independence that has provided them with the endurance they have needed to withstand life’s greatest challenges. It is for these reasons they do not require, or expect others to make life easy for them. With a calling from God, they are equipped to live according to His Word. From hardships, they are now dressed in much humility and with an open, malleable heart; transformed into a beautiful image that is in His likeness - pure of heart, with a compassionate spirit garnered with self-control and wisdom. Regardless of weather, this wisdom allows them to cherish rather than fear the narrow path they have chosen. Intelligent and ready to place full trust in Him, they are very capable of discerning whether the outlook is bright and sunny; dark and gloomy; or thundering with fierce winds blowing their way. And yes... while much of the secular world does not fully understand or appreciate the rewards associated with this less travelled path, they willingly follow the lead and needs of others in spite of their fierce independence as rewards have been many. Unconditional love and acceptance has brought much peace, security, and freedom to a life once wild and out of control. From this contentment, the mustang heart of the Proverbs 31 individual has been tamed, awakened with new confidence, and still growing in so many beautiful ways with a new-found purpose of reaching and touching the lives of many in the same way they have been touched. Dressed in self-control, discipline, and wisdom, they are rich in the fruit of the Holy Spirit - an "adornment" suitably worn for every occasion and every activity.</li>
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So whatever you do to manifest your life's purpose, be sure to put on your Sunday best, comb your hair, wash your face, and get ready for each new day that awaits you. And remember ... when you do.... don't bother putting on your shoes. Rather, walk barefoot among the people and work diligently with your hands all the while fully dressed in your "royal attire"!</div>
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~ Theresa</span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br />
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<i><b>Proverbs 31:16 “She considers a field and buys it; <br />
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From a modern day perspective, this scene illustrates a remarkable picture of an individual who has a great deal of freedom in terms of decision-making. Trusted implicitly by his or her spouse, s/he is given much independence in managing a wide range of affairs, including the purchase of land. This is contrary to conventional wisdom as much freedom may actually be had in submitting to the lead and needs of others. <br />
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Case in point... as in the first line of this verse, the Proverbs 31 individual "considers a field and buys it." Regardless of gender or era, the purchase of anything...including real estate ... requires careful consideration. In addition to location, s/he considers the advantages the land provides and how the land is to be used prior to purchase. Not irresponsible in anyway with family resources, the Proverbs 31 individual is not an impulse buyer. Rather, prior to purchase, s/he carefully considers whether the land is worth the money and whether the family can afford to take so much money out of savings for the purchase. Prudent, s/he does not rush to purchase the land; checks whether the title is good; determines whether the ground is fruitful; and ensures s/he has sufficient money to pay for the land without incurring debts. This is counter to many today, who get into trouble by making purchases without careful consideration. Such frivolous actions not only use up limited resources, but may ultimately plunge the family into insurmountable debt. How many times have we purchased way more than we need, or purchase items that are not needed to efficiently manage a household? The Proverbs 31 individual is well aware of their family's limited resources and takes much care in respecting and maximizing the use of those resources. It is this thoughtful planning of resources that not only speaks volumes about our character, but about how well we follow the lead and needs of our loved ones. When we maximize our family's limited resources, we say to our loved ones that we truly love them because we seriously thought about their needs and considered their future good.<br />
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<i><b>With the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard</b></i><br />
Once purchased, the Proverbs 31 individual maximizes use of the land by "planting a vineyard" using "the fruit of her hands". By lovingly planting the seed into fertile ground, the Proverbs 31 individual lays the groundwork for producing a great harvest for years to come. Further, s/he does so not by borrowing money or running into debt, but by working hard; using what s/he can spare from household savings; shopping smart; and keeping a watchful eye on bargains. Again, we can learn a great deal from this verse. Like many things in life, we have a choice. We can either give into our selfish desires and spend money needlessly on our self, or plan for the future good of our loved ones. With common sense and wise use of family resources, we are all capable of harvesting much fruit for the benefit of our loved ones for years to come. With the Proverbs 31 individual as the heart of the family, s/he is someone loved ones can look to and rely on as s/he relies on God for strength, dignity, and common sense to carry out the immense task of managing the family's limited resources.</div>
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<b><i>Proverbs 31:15 </i></b></div>
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<b><i>She riseth also while it is yet night, giving food to her household <br />
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Rising before the sun not only demonstrates that idleness and laziness have no place in our life, but doing so offer many benefits. For one ... the day begins peacefully. Free from noise and distractions, the day may start in quiet meditation. This not only ensures a great start to the day, but also says to our Lord that we want Him to be a part of it from the time we awake until we rest our head again.</div>
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For another...rising early ensures a productive start to the day. Have you ever slept in late then by the time you really get going it seems that half the day is gone and you have accomplished very little? As partners, parents, children, co-workers, students, teachers, friends, and more, we have quite a lot on our plate. Our days are full, and we often feel exhausted from the time we awake. So the temptation is there to stay in bed "just a little longer". How many times though have we slept through the quiet morning hours, only to find ourselves still exhausted and now falling even further behind in our day's duties? Many of us know what it feels like to be tired and worn down all too well. However, the attitude of "staying in bed for just a little longer" also has a way of permeating into other areas too. Before you know it, you find yourself going about your day in slow motion. If you find yourself struggling to rise early, ask God to give you the strength, health, and energy you need to jump start your day. Also, add something special to your morning routine to re-energize you. Perhaps it is spending a few minutes reading something inspirational, listening and dancing to your favorite music, or drinking a cup of hot tea and sitting in quiet prayer. Or, maybe it's a matter of stepping outside for a breath of the fresh morning air, or sitting and reflecting on the day's blessings. Different things work for different people. So ask yourself: What motivates me? What brings contentment to my heart so I am ready to face the day? What will I be doing with my loved ones today that will bring joy? All give us a reason to get up and make the most of our day.<br />
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Another reason for rising early is to provide your loved ones with a hearty,home-cooked breakfast! Nutritionists consider breakfast the most important meal of the day, nourishing the body that has not had any food for many hours and providing energy for the toil of the day. The virtuous individual ensures their loved ones get off to a good nutritional start. It is often said that you can tell a lot about a family by what they are eating for breakfast. Is your family sitting down and spending time together sharing a warm meal? Or, are you starting the day off by grabbing whatever you can find to eat as you rush out the door without saying as much as a goodbye and "I love you" to loved ones?</div>
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How many families do you know take time to sit down and share a meal together around the table? Often families don't eat together, don't pray together, don't read or spend quality time together. It's no wonder many don't stay together. Sitting down together as a family in the morning really sets the tone for the whole day. Just having that extra time together makes the whole day better. What's more, spending time with family before leaving for work gives your loved ones the encouragement they need to face the day. Knowing that someone special is thinking of, praying for, and looking forward to their return at the end of the day gives them a reason to rush home and spend even more quality time together.</div>
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<b>And giving a portion to her maidens</b></div>
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Here, we are reminded of the Old Testament economy; namely, that the Israelites who honored and feared the Lord were promised both spiritual blessings and material blessings. It is clear then that the Proverbs 31 individual had both and did not live in poverty. In fact, the virtuous individual was blessed with a large household, which included servants. While one may think a virtuous individual was quite capable of commanding their servants to rise early and prepare breakfast for their family, they did not do that. Rather, we are told they gave a portion of food to their servants. This not only speaks volumes about the kindness shown towards those working under them, but it is also demonstrated that they demanded of others only what they themselves were willing to do. This is something staff even today greatly respect and appreciate; namely, a superior who is willing to "get their hands dirty" and do some of the very tasks they require their staff to do.</div>
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A virtuous individual takes care of their loved ones whether they are at home or away. What's more, they use their hospitality to minister to all those around them, creating a warm, inviting atmosphere that expresses "I love you" in very real ways to family as well as to all those who are welcomed guests not only in their homes, but in their hearts too!!!</div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Remember ... touch a life today "The Little Way" by following the lead and need of others. Also, if you ever thought to yourself, "I wish my customers, knew...", then be sure to visit White Light Communications at <a href="http://www.tothewhitelight.com./">http://www.tothewhitelight.com.</a><br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Proverbs 31:14 </span></span></i></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><b>Introduction</b></i><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">In the prior verse, the Proverb3 31 individual provided clothing for their family and for their business. In </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">this verse, s/he provides food for his or her family. With the virtuous individual an instrument of God’s </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">provisioning, s/he plays a key role in providing both food and clothing for hir or her family to ensure </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">contentment (1 Tim. 6:8).</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><i><b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Merchant Ships</span></b></i><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">In the first line of this verse, the Scriptures compare the virtuous individual to merchant ships carrying </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">items from faraway countries. With merchants being traders who buy or sell commodities for profit, </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">the virtuous individual takes some of the wondrous garments or clothes made from wool and flax </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">(Verse13) and trades them for food items from distant lands for family to enjoy. This is in sharp </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">contrast to today, where money is spent grocery shopping in town.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><i><b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Merchant Ship Qualities</span></b></i><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">What’s particularly interesting about merchant ships is that they are not the fastest means of </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">transporting goods from one area to another. Yet they are the most cost-effective and efficient </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">means; especially for perishable goods such as food. </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">This is in sharp contrast to today’s world where everyone wants everything NOW! We have instant </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">coffee, drive-thru windows, microwave ovens, and easy meals prepared at the grocery store ready for </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">purchase, reheat, and enjoyment! There’s a price to be paid for this convenience. Higher grocery prices. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">While jet airplanes </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">transport foods faster, merchant ships are still the preferred method as they can carry a greater load; </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">use less energy and resources; are more cost-effective; and far more efficient. What’s more, the load </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">that a merchant ship typically carries in one trip takes an airplane multiple trips.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><i><b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Meal Preparation</span></b></i><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">One of the things many of us struggle with on a daily basis is the preparation of nutritious meals for our </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">family. There are many days we can’t seem to get it together. Whether the reason is fatigue, work-</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">related stress, or just plain laziness, we figure, "It won't hurt just this once to go out and get something </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">to eat," or "Well, I'll get just a couple of frozen meals, just in case I get in a pinch." The trouble is that </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">this not only gets very expensive, but a consistent diet of prepared foods is unhealthy. M</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">any prepared dinners are very high in sodium (salt) and a steady diet of prepared food items causes </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">deficiencies in key vitamins and minerals due to a severe lack of fruits and vegetables. While </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">we often give excuses, there is a solution: planning ahead.</span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"></span><i><b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Menu Planning</span></b></i><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">While it has been awhile (my kids are now grown), there was a time when I prepared a healthy menu </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">for my family on a weekly basis and kept staple items in my refrigerator, freezer, and pantry so I was </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">always prepared to make something. Every weekend </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I would take out my favorite cookbooks, along with the family calendar, and </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">plan the menu for the coming week. Depending on what we had planned during the week, I would </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">determine whether I had time to make a full meal (such as meat, potatoes, and vegetable), prepare a </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">quick meal (such as a casserole), or prepare something the night before. What's more, I noted special dinner nights, featuring the favorite of one of my kids. For example, "Sarah Dinner Night" might be homemade macaroni and cheese with ham while "Michael Dinner Night" might be Teriyaki chicken. In addition, I considered </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">leftover meals for nights when we had a scout meeting or a concert to attend. Once the meals were planned for the week, I would then put </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">together a grocery list of required items and only purchased what was on the list. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"></span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Keep in mind this did not mean we never ate out or never ate prepared frozen meals. It just meant we </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">planned for it, didn’t have a steady diet of it, and did not use it as an excuse for not cooking for my </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">family on a regular basis.</span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Summary</span></b></i><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">While I have been divorced now for a number of years, I am currently in a relationship with a </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">wonderful man. While I do not know what the future holds for us, I want him to know that when we </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">are together, I wish to be like the merchant ships. During the coming year, I want to revitalize what I did for my children when they were growing up. This time for my life partner. I wish to take my time; plan healthy meals; </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">purchase delicious, cost-effective groceries; as well as minimize waste and spoilage. Why do all of this, you ask?</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> </span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I’ve been given a second chance at love and don't want my life partner to take a back seat to whatever </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">else I wish to accomplish with my day. I want him to know I am choosing a life that demonstrates to him </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">just how much I love and want what is best for him rather than choosing a life of </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">convenience. What's more, it’s my way of showing him just how much I honor, </span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">appreciate, and value the hard work he does to provide for us. </span></span><br />
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<b><i>She seeketh wool and flax and worketh willingly with her hands</i></b></div>
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In addition to caring for their home, life partner, and family, the Proverbs 31 individual is also a successful entrepreneur. In fact, s/he serves as an inspiration to other individuals as s/he is living a life that many only hope to one day… s/he is living his or her life purpose. S/he takes a huge risk in starting a home-based business designing and manufacturing clothing. Over time though s/he proves to be so successful that she eventually purchases real estate and builds a factory on it!</div>
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As the first line of Proverbs 31:13 indicates, “She seeketh wool and flax” as two basic materials for making clothes and garments for her household and for her business. Wool, as you know, is the curly undercoat of a sheep, which is woven into a warm garment or fabric. For example, today we wear wool sweaters or mittens to protect us from the cold. Flax is a fibrous plant. When its fiber is pulled and twisted into yarn or thread during the spinning process, the result is a fine linen from which a variety of garments and materials, such as coarse canvas, rugged sails for ships, as well as thin, delicate scarves, may be produced.</div>
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As the second line of Proverbs 31:13 indicates, “and worketh willingly with her hands.” I have to admit I found myself focused on the word, “willingly.” Nowadays, that word often has a negative connotation, being synonymous with"unenthusiastic consent." For example, “oh ok, I will wash the dishes if I REALLY have to.” Yet work does not need to be viewed as boring or tedious. We in fact have a choice as to how we choose to view our work.The Proverbs 31 individual not only chooses to be cheerful and ready to work, but also derives much pleasure in working with her hands. As a result, her work is a source of great satisfaction. How refreshing this is!</div>
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For me, this verse is particularly meaningful as it also reminds me of how we have lost the fine art of working with our hands over time be it for calligraphy, sewing, stained glass painting, woodworking, or something else. Thanks to the computer age, we no longer seek or find pleasure in receiving homemade items or in creating things with our own hands. For example, rather than finding pleasure in making our own clothes, we now find delight in shopping for clothes at the local mall, often adversely affecting the family budget. Rather than sharing our gifts and talents with other family members, parents are connected to their computers, while children are often glued to a television show or to the latest video game - all without sharing quality time or meaningful conversation. What is most unfortunate though is that many talents are never developed or passed on. Mothers never learn how to cook, sew, knit, or crochet much less pass on those skills to their children. The same holds true for fathers who never learn how to fix things around the house, woodwork, work on cars, or manage family finances. As a result, these skills are never passed on from one generation to the next. An entire generation living without ever knowing or experiencing the true pleasure in working with their hands ... even when the desire may be there!</div>
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And there is great pleasure derived ... not only in working with one's hands, but also in sharing the experience with others. I remember as a child watching my mother spend hours in the kitchen baking French pastries, or in the Master bedroom at her sewing machine making a costume for a play or a new outfit for an upcoming family portrait. I have fond memories of my uncle repairing a lamp at the kitchen table and my grandfather in the backyard taking delight in the beautiful rose garden he started when he and my grandmother lived in the home my family now occupied. Many beautiful crafts are now becoming a lost art.</div>
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I also recall my mother playing host to all the neighborhood kids in our backyard, joining us on the swing and serving refreshments. I also remember her being involved in the neighborhood Mother’s Club, where all the local mothers got together by day to exchange talents and by night to socialize. The neighborhood seamstress would exchange her talents with the neighborhood pastry chef while the local gardener would exchange her talents with the local artist. Nowadays, many social connections are lost in favor of staying in and staying to ourselves. Never venturing out beyond our comfort zone, many talents remain hidden not only from friends, but from family members too.</div>
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Amidst tough economic times though we have a wonderful opportunity to expand our influence and our ministry as well as to reconnect with our family, friends, and more. The time is right to return to our roots; to shop for bargains, to use resources wisely, and to find pleasure in simple things... including in working with our hands once more. And when we do, we not only have a chance to develop our God-given talents, but we also have the opportunity to reconnect with others and to pass our craft onto a future generation. What legacy do you wish to pass on?</div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>Proverbs 31:12:<br /> </i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>She will do him good, not evil, all the days of her life</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Nowadays
as in Biblical times, it is difficult to find a good partner... be it
for business or for love. For example, Job's wife often questioned his
faith and integrity in accepting so much adversity, with this
questioning only adding to his trials (Job 2:9-10). Like Job, our loved
ones often test our patience. God presents us with these challenges for a
reason; to show us how to look beyond and find good in our current
situation as well as come to understand that He is always working with
and through us … even in adversity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Like
many, I believe Proverbs 31:10-31 is a continuation of the advise King
Lemuel's mother taught him in Proverbs 31:1-9 about using the strength
that is within to serve the needs of others. That by using our strength
to serve others, we learn how to love our selves and others, and in
turn, by learning how to love others and our selves, we learn to
recognize when love returns to us in the form of a virtuous partner. A
virtuous partner then is not only viewed as serving the needs of their
loved one, but also in wanting only that which is good for them, not
evil. This is such a powerful verse to read then to live by. On the
surface, it seems easy. Don't kill, maim, or otherwise harm your loved
one. Like most, I can do that. What is more challenging though is the
realization that anything not good and uplifting to your loved one is
essentially evil. For example: do you ever find yourself talking about
him behind his back, back talking him, demeaning him in front of others,
discouraging him, dishonoring him, snagging the last cookie or slice of
pie from him, talking down to him, or otherwise nagging him?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">In
determining whether we are indeed providing what is best for our loved
one, we need to take a closer... if not painful... look in the mirror at
how we choose to live our life. Specifically, we need to listen to what
we say and observe ourselves as others would at what we do. After that,
we need to ask ourselves honestly: Do my words and my deeds truly
demonstrate to the one I love that I not only wish to love and serve
him, but that I am also a constant benefit and blessing to him?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Being
human, we most likely do not like what we hear or see at times. At the
very least, we find areas where we can improve. All improvements start
with trust, which is also the foundation of any healthy relationship.
When each partner feels safe, trust develops. Trust, and the security it
offers, however, does not occur over night. Rather, it develops over
time when each partner knows that their loved one consistently
demonstrates that they love, serve, and want what is best for them.
Trust also develops when expressed words are consistent with actions
shown. For example, verbal expressions of “I love you” are always backed
up with actions such as attention, appreciation, and affection that
clearly demonstrate love. Most of all, in finding a virtuous partner who
is genuine, reliable, responsible, and agreeable, both partners feel
truly blessed and have much gratitude as they know God had a hand in
bringing them together.</span></span></div>
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<i><b>Proverbs 31:11<br /> The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her<br /> So that he shall have no need of spoil.</b></i><br />
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<b>A Trusting Heart</b></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">The
first line, “The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her” refers
to a man and a woman being able to trust and confide in one another. In
early times, “<b>husband</b>" referred to the male spouse of a
marriage who protected and supported his wife and children by
judiciously managing and conserving usage of resources while “wife”
referred to the female spouse of a marriage who managed the household
and nurtured her husband and children. This division of roles and
responsibilities came about out of necessity as at one time a wife did
not have any legal rights apart from her husband. Unable to provide for
her own self, she had to submit to her husband due to lack of rights and
denial of equal education. Today, the roles of husband and wife have
changed in three major ways. First, marriage has transformed from an
institution of dominant and submissive roles to one of equal companions
or partners. This came about as a result of wives becoming legal
entities with rights and the ability to own property. Second, women now
have the right to an education equal to men. Further, as a result of
this education, it became socially acceptable for women to work outside
the home. Last, but not least, with the cost of living rising
exponentially, both partners share responsibilities with both often
working outside of the home out of necessity.</span><i><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b> </b></span></i><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Trust
is not only a fundamental requirement of a strong marriage, but of any
relationship – including relationship with our friends, family,
coworkers, neighbors, pastor, and with God. Sadly, many men and women of
today have doubts about one another for a variety of reasons and this
doubt manifests itself as mistrust. Once mistrust sets in on both parts,
much is hidden rather than openly shared. So what causes doubt?
Expectations. Often we fail to recognize our partner’s heart as we have
expectations about what is needed or what the outcome should be. Due to
our expectations of what they should say or do, we are often blinded
when they actually give us what we desire most - their hearts. So what
do we do to ensure our partner’s heart trusts us? In three words…
Appreciation, Attention, and Affection.</span></div>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Appreciation </b>We
must begin to learn, understand, and appreciate their heart. How can
our partner’s heart "safely trust" in us if we do not even recognize
when they are sharing it? Often times women project feelings a certain
way and expect their partner’s hearts to work the same way. For example,
if our partner does not come across as mushy all the time, or does not
say “I love you” all the time, then they may think their partner is not
sharing their heart, or at the very least are shallow or holding back.
Keep in mind actions often speak louder than words. While they may not
say, “I love you” all the time, they may be showing us in little ways.
For example, my former husband was not very expressive about his
feelings, yet early in our relationship he spent all night one Christmas
Eve many years ago “building a teddy bear” that played the love theme,
“Somewhere My Love” from the movie, “Dr. Zhivago.”</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Attention </b>Our
society and culture continue to feed us lies about how relationships
should be. These worldly expectations are not only self-centered, but
unrealistic too. Many times our partner becomes discouraged when we do
not pay attention to them, or feel as though nothing they do is ever
good enough, or we wish them to be someone they're not. It is not at all
uncommon for both men and women to have fantasy-driven standards of
what their partner should be. Often times, what we see on television or
in movies, or read in novels shape these fantasies. Allowing our hearts
and minds to entertain such fantasies only leads to discontentment in
our relationships, or worse. To ensure our partner trusts our heart, we
need to learn how our partner’s heart works. We must recognize their
vulnerability - rough edges and all - taking care never to compare them
to anyone else. When we let go of our expectations; when we allow
ourselves to be “in the moment” with them without distraction, it is
then we truly listen. And when we are truly attentive and really listen,
it is then we hear and feel their heart.</span><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">
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nature, God created both men and women to desire affection and intimacy
with the one they love. In fact, the need for affection is very basic.
While we are all capable of providing our partners with much warmth and
affection; a sense of home and respite; a safe haven filled with comfort
and enjoyment, none occurs by accident. All require focus and conscious
effort on our part. Does your partner find you to be a warm, gentle,
and peaceful place, or does he come home to find you preoccupied,
self-focused, and uninviting? Affection builds trusts.</span></li>
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second line, “So that he shall have no need of spoil” refers to lack of
need, or no need. A similar expression, “I shall not want,” is in Psalm
23: 1. In both instances, where there is an abundance of love and
trust, nothing is lacking; there is no other need. If the Lord is truly
our Shepherd, then we are not in need of anything because He fulfills
all our needs. The same thing holds true with a partner we trust. If we
have a godly partner, then nothing is lacking, there is no need to
stray, or no other need as our partner is of tremendous benefit to us
and our family. Neither man or woman is a liability as home and
resources are well managed. With both partners being so industrious and
productive, their efforts result in great gain and even profit.</span></div>
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~ Theresa</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7897609054993480736.post-48959567808131018592009-11-06T16:09:00.000-05:002013-05-04T15:02:41.905-04:00Finding A Man or Woman of Strength<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">This is the first of a series of posts illustrating a beautiful portrait of humanity; of men and women who without even realizing it, strive to embody qualities Proverbs 31 embraces in all life areas– personally, with their family, professionally, spiritually, and in their love life too. </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Whether you’re a "Proverbs 31” man or a woman, you stand out from the rest; you're a red rose among a field of yellow roses. You're a man or woman of and for all ages, a role model of timeless strength and beauty, virtue and responsibility; a cherished life partner and a powerful entrepreneur too!</span></span><br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Proverbs 31:10</span></span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Who can find a virtuous woman?</span></span><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">She is worth far more than rubies.</span></span></i></b></div>
<span style="font-size: small;"><br style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" /><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">As mentioned in a previous post, there seems to be some misconceptions with the first part of the verse – “Who can find a virtuous woman? –specifically, with what the term, “virtuous” means. In the biblical sense, “virtuous” actually referred to strength, efficiency, and ability. Further, in addition to Proverbs 31, the Old Testament used the term, “virtuous woman” in other places. For example, in Ruth 3:11, “virtuous woman” was a term used to describe Ruth. Everyone took notice of Ruth as her strength of character was viewed not only obvious, but unusual. Keeping this in mind, “virtuous” was also a quality sought in men of the Bible too. For example, in Exodus 18:21, Moses was asked to find “virtuous men” – able men, or men of strength. In this instance, a virtuous man was seen as one who feared God, sought truth, and strived not to sin. Moses looked for such men, with the implication that such men were not easy to find. Comparable expressions were also used in 1 Kings 1:42 ("valiant man" or "man of strength") and 1 Kings 1:52 ("worthy man" or "man of strength"). Bottom line … with most people seen as morally weak, it was and still is rare to find a virtuous man or woman. As such, when someone of such qualities is placed in your life, their presence is quite evident - to you and to others.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">There is also some misconception surrounding the second part of the verse– “She is worth far more than rubies." The Hebrew term, "rubies" referred to pink pearls or red coral. Found in a mollusk in the Red Sea, a pink pearl was considered rare and of great value. “Rubies” was also found in other parts of the Old Testament. For example, Proverbs 20:15 and Job 28:18 indicated rubies were very valuable and Lamentations 4:7 referred to them as being reddish ("ruddy") in color. Thus, finding a man or woman of strength was compared to a rare gem - precious and of great value. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">How can one find a man or woman of strength? First, have faith in and trust in God's love; that He will place a man or woman of strength in your life when the time is right. Second, realize that a virtuous woman or man is not going to want just any man or woman. S/he is going to want to find an individual of strength, an individual valiant for the truth, a godly servant who follows the lead and needs of others. So if you seek such a gem, be a gem yourself. Finally... dare to be stand out, dare to be different, and even dare to go against the flow of the world. Most of all... dare to transform yourself, renewing your heart, mind, body, and spirit. Before you know it, you will not only be a man or woman of strength, but you will attract the interest of a man or woman of strength!</span></span><br />
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With a great affinity for St. Therese’s life, I have come to know the “Little Way” along with its philosophy of “following the lead and needs of others with great love.” What I did not realize until I awoke one morning last week was that St. Therese’ life demonstrated in very real ways the beauty and strength, the self-reliance and discipline described in the Proverbs 31 verses. This realization compelled me to seek out not only the real truth, but also the misconceptions surrounding these verses.</div>
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In the Book of Proverbs in the Hebrew Bible, Proverbs 31 describes the qualities of a woman of good character. Most notably, the 10th to 31st verses of this chapter is known as “Eishes Chayil”. Traditionally, this term translates to mean "virtuous" or "noble." However, many scholars now suggest the true meaning of the term as "forceful," "mighty," or "valiant" with the term being used almost exclusively in reference to warfare. Apparently, back then as is now, a "woman of good character" is not only viewed as a cherished life partner, but a powerful entrepreneur too!</div>
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Like many of you out there, before taking a closer look, I too had misconceptions about Proverbs 31; most notably I thought the verses were only directed toward women. What's more, I had visions of home confinement, having to surrender my strengths, only to become weak; having to surrender my independence, only to become dependent on another; and having to surrender control of my life and my voice, only to have decisions made for me. Upon learning the history and carefully reading Proverbs 31, however, I learned a male chauvinist did not write the verse with the purpose of dictating how a woman should behave to benefit him. In fact, I was surprised to learn that the verses were offered as loving advise from King Lemmuel's Mother to her son about the qualities that empowered both men and women along with the relationship they shared. While the chapter focused on the qualities of a woman of good character, it also implied a man of good character when read between the lines, for why would a woman follow a man’s lead only to be mistreated? I found Proverbs 31 to be a beautiful portrait illustrating a loving relationship between man and woman as a dynamic, mutually rewarding partnership; one that a woman followed a man's lead and the man in return followed a woman’s needs.</div>
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Proverbs 31 also placed a high priority on family life along with the practice of wisdom within the home. The thought is that learning wisdom at the home not only taught family members to relate to one another, but also taught them to relate to others in the real world as you would family members – whether it be socially, professionally, spiritually, or romantically. In ministering to one another, the needs of others took precedence before our own. In loving and encouraging others to reach their full potential in all areas of life, we also helped our loved ones reach the kingdom of heaven.</div>
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As I started to read and learn about Proverbs 31, the deep meaning behind the verses slowly sunk in. It became clear that in our quest to belong to the secular world, we often misinterpret God’s Word. In taking a closer look at Proverbs 31, I discovered the secular world to be far more demeaning to women with the message of the Gospel far more liberating.</div>
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In future posts, I will share my thoughts on the meaning behind the 10th to 31st verses of Proverbs 31 and how they may apply to life today.</div>
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